“Open…”

“Be still…”

“Spread out for me…”

“Assume the position!”

“On your knees…”

“Lay down.”

“Kiss me…”, “Suck it!”, “Like this…”, “Open wider…”, “Slide to the edge of the bed…”, “Take all of it”, “Keep your hands and feet on the bed!”, “Keep your hands where I put them”, “Keep your legs as far apart as possible”, “Knees to chest”, “Present your nipples for me…”

These are all commands that one or another of my partners have used with me over the years.

My rope musing has helped me understand that it is not really the rope that I want to bind me, it is my man’s will. I want him to bind me with his hands, with his rope, with restraints…It’s very sexy after all…but mostly, I want him to instruct me how to lay or what to do during sex. I want him to tell me what position to get into. I want him to tell me how to hold that position and when to move to another one. I want him to tell me how to move on him. I want him to tell me how to please him. I need reassurance that I’m pleasing him. I want him to tell me how it feels to be with me. I want him to enjoy the use of my body, as well as enjoy my pleasure in his attention, his body and his company.

I like mental bondage. For me the bondage natural to rope play isn’t really the best part when it comes to sex. Mental bondage is…I want to feel the bondage mentally and emotionally. For me, that requires dictating play, a little instruction and sexy talk whispered in my ear…a ritual of some kind…erotic hypnosis…

Lunch was fun. We had roast beef sandwiches, yogurt, banana and chips on some fresh bulky rolls. We had some nice conversation about nothing particularly important…but we affirmed just how much we enjoy each other’s company yet again.

It is incredibly easy to be with him.

He is as easy to be with as my last roommy, Ginny, is.

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